I agree, everyone has been nice to me which is great! If someone schools me then it probably just means they have a different perspective which I can handle at this point.
ASMR Serena Valentine
2024-03-30 20:54:04 +0000 UTC
Only after listening to the first minute, I already can roughly tell what the audio is going to be like.
I don't think most of us here at Patreon will school you (if we do, we wouldn't be here for long, that I know is for certain).
Well, "school" in the disdainful/unapproving/judgemental way, that is [to some degree, as long as we live on earth, everyone is bound to have some ego, and when they speak their mind, some desire to show-off/prove-innate-worth (you know what I'm talking about) must surface when the words come out].
All in all, I hope I don't sound like I'm schooling you that much (!)
Well, regarding the topic at the end of the audio: (!) As they (very often) say, "everything is impermanent, the only constant is change".
Estahv
2024-03-30 05:04:08 +0000 UTC
Yes! I noticed that from when I was younger, I loved to wear bright eyeshadow and large earrings which was not the fashion at the time (especially in middle school haha). However, as I got older, I stopped following recipes and trends and just did my own thing. I definitely feel more free without labels or people telling me what to do and I plan to continue to follow what I wish <3 It's great that you can relate. Loved reading this!
ASMR Serena Valentine
2024-03-24 06:21:47 +0000 UTC
Jeeze topics like these I wish I knew you in life. What a conversation it would be! Yet I will try to hit all the topic points as best I can.
First thank you for describing how social media and Influence works. You may not know science and I do not know social media. So it's nice to hear how that works operates.
Labels is something I've been contending with since the beginning of this year when I came to realization that I'm bi. Yet even that label I don't like there is too much emphasis and importance placed on labels.
Like yourself my interests can sway and move. I like to say that I am like the wind you'll never know which way I will blow.
I think a label is fine for personal use yet horrible for Public life because you get this tribe mentality. Seems like this is what occurs when you have that example of the artist who enjoy a punk aesthetic.
I refuse to be labeled and pigeon held. I can be who ever and what ever I want, I can like and love who and what so ever I want.
Without betraying some standard that's arbitrary. I am anyone and everyone.
I love that I get to watch you grow and evolve on here, and commend your forward thinking in ensuring you do not commit anything to the web that would be damning to your goals.
Keep going, keep changing and to hell with labels.
As Ian McKellen said “They don’t want to be labeled lesbian, they don’t want to be labeled bisexual, they don’t want to be labeled anything. I am what I am, in the words of the popular song. Fluidity is the future. People will not be bound by the finger pointed at them, giving them a label.”